I Adore the Hell Outta You
I Adore the Hell Outta You is a cheeky, unfiltered podcast for women in midlife—and anyone curious about what it really looks like to grow, stretch, and continuously expand. Hosted by two best friends with a tarot deck and a sharp sense of humor, we dive into the wild ride of aging, identity, relationships, body stuff, and big life pivots. Think late-night phone call energy meets real talk about becoming more yourself, one messy chapter at a time. Midlife is the main character, but all are welcome.
Episodes
48 episodes
Things we're adoring 💗a whole damn episode
It's been a minute since we checked in on this essential segment. So, we dedicated a whole episode to reminding ourselves of all the good and all the pleasure in the simple things. What are you adoring right now? Tell us immediately (TMI). ...
House Feelings
The energy you put into your home. It's personal, season, cyclical. Holly is knee deep in a remodel and Christa is tending to the flock inside her home. Each of us (and you) are in different phases of investing energy into our homes, we hope th...
What do you want to be known for?
Join us as we celebrate our notoriety and it's not quite what we expected, but we'll take it! This is a question worth asking! Not what do you do- but what do you want to be known for?? We're sitting with this one for a bit, you're welcome to j...
The medicine is what it is
Oh hi friends, today's episode is a sweet little reflection on what life sends our way. Sometimes the medicine needs a spoonful of sugar, and sometimes it's just bitter as hell. We're all getting the medicine. Hopefully that helps it go down a ...
April Fools and Getting Poked
What do you get when you cross an April Fool's joke and a piercing needle??? You get this episode.
Coming in (and out) hot: habits you start and stop
This is NOT a shame fest of starting and stopping. We are digging into what we learn when we find something that works but then BECAUSE it works, we stop. See how we did that? It's a funny feedback loop. We take action when somethin...
How to Plan Your Own Party Part 2
We're doing a follow up on our friend Rebecca and the 50th Birthday party she planned for herself. This one is good. We also call on our AI advisor to help another friend who has felt tentative about planning her party, come up with some strate...
Tarot talk
We let the cards guide this discussion and there's something so good about going off the cuff and not knowing what the cards will ask us to consider. We hope you enjoy this as much as we did!
Oh shit I missed a meeting!
You know the feeling...you're going about your business and then *kabang* it hits you that you missed a meeting. Or you missed something important- swap out meeting for whatever fits your life these days. It can trigger an onslaught...
Gym Files: life lessons we sweat for
So many valuable life lessons have been learned in a gym. From honing your gut instinct to accepting assistance when you really need it- the gym serves it up. Seriously though, I've been traveling this week, and I've been...
Going for Gold: Olympic fever and geriatric dreams
We love the Olympics and all that love got us thinking- why aren't there Olympics for the later in life folks?? Sign us up! We'll need some absorbent diapers and pelvic floor support but we're eager and determined. Let yourself be i...
Oxytocin Tingle
Our nipples are tingling over this one babes. But for real, do we really need to explain why boosting the love hormone might be a good strategy these days? We think stimulating the cuddle chemical might rise to the top, right up the...
Holding on lightly: the art of the volley
In a season of life when heaps of shit are being thrown at us from all directions- we're contemplating what it means to hold it all lightly. Balancing responsibility with self-preservation, the art of the volley is worth considering. <...
When you don't have the answers: smooth white icy patches
There are a lot of life analogies that can be found on the ski hill. We found another one- the smooth white icy patches that catch you off guard, send you sailing, have you white knuckling your way through life. This is a balm for those without...
Powder Days and a Mogul Maze: Moms on skis
Credit to my son for that title! Ok, we're currently feeling fried about the state of the country sooooo we're throwing something fun and exhilarating to counteract the urge to retreat in fear. Get out there and throw your arms to t...
How to plan your own party and toot your own horn
It's time to partaaaaaay. And we're throwing our own party. In today's episode we tease out the discomfort and the opportunity that can come from tooting your own horn. And in 2026 we're calling for more of this! Take your bold authority and pl...
Back to life, back to reality
We're back at it but we're easing in and we hope you can too. How do we take breaks? Why are breaks important? We're breaking it down bit by juicy, drippy, bit. Actually, it's not juicy, I mean it's not sexy juicy. It's reality. But let's go ea...
Kissing 2025 Goodbye
MWAH, now get out of here you dirty little biscuit. We're kissing 2025 goodbye and sharing our approach to entering a new year. We like to claim a bold word for the year, something to hold on to as we move through the inevitable com...
Merry Christmas Ya Filthy Animal
All things beloved (and cursed) about the magical time of year we call Christmas. Laughter is a balm, and we're serving up a nice juicy one to get you relaxed and, in the mood,... In the mood for what is what we really want to know🤣...
Comedy, Creativity, and the Courage to be Seen
"Because when you make people laugh, you make people listen"We're thrilled to have Lynn Harris, CEO of Gold Comedy on the pod this week. Our conversation is a lesson in life-hacks because there is power in making people laugh, putting yo...
Winter Solstice and the Shadow
We're embracing the dark, not always willingly, but that's how it goes right?! In this season of darkness, we not editing out pauses on purpose. We're leaving them in because it's the season of slow(er) when it comes to shadow work....
I'm good and I like what I like
"I'm good". It rolls off the tongues of many teenagers so easily, so nonchalantly. We're learning from the kids how easy it can be to say no. Gosh they're smart and maybe they're on to something here😉. They usually are. I...